There is help for those who are ready to kick their addiction, but only if you are lucky.
Are you ready to quit drugs and alcohol and reclaim your life?
If you are lucky, you are ready at the same time a bed in a rehab facility is available. Otherwise, you have to wait until a bed opens up. Good luck, not dying from your addiction while you wait.
When a bed opens up, insurance will pay for it. If you have no insurance, there is funding available, but that funding of addiction programs happens only once a year, in January, and is good only until the money runs out, usually by September or October. That means if you decide to kick your addiction anytime from Halloween through the end of the year, there will be no money for your treatment. Good luck, staying alive until the program is re-funded on New Year's Day.
One out of four people who have to take long-term medically-prescribed pain medication for legitimate purposes ends up addicted. When they realize it, they need help immediately.
Even children from loving families may try drugs, and some become addicted while their peers do not.
When you or a loved one realize it is time to fight an addiction, help is not always available. In this political year, please make sure your candidates are fighting for your right to treatment in case you or a loved one develop an addiction. Demand full funding for addiction services. Demand more beds in rehab facilities be made available, just as we demand beds in hospitals be available when it is time to deliver a baby.
I am not an addict, but it seems to me that it should be a basic human right to obtain treatment to free yourself from addiction, which could happen in any family.
Fog Soup
thoughts on the infinite
Wednesday, July 15, 2015
Monday, June 15, 2015
THE NUMERICAL SIGNIFICANCE OF THIS QUOTATION
Lotte Bloom - Her
story of escaping Nazi Germany - Part 1
(44:11)
LOTTE BLOOM
"Mike, I want to
tell you. You don't know what you can take care of, when you're forced to."
I am writing about the above quotation from a video posted
on Youtube of my friend's Aunt Lotte. The time marker for her words above is (44:11).
When I read this time aloud, one numeral at a time, "4" "4"
"1" "1," it hit me that it sounds like "For 411."
Since my internet signature is susannalee411, I believe it is possible that,
from the far reaches of the universe, across time and space, Lotte spoke this
message for me, personally, and I need to do something for Lotte. Lotte recorded
this video because she wants us never to forget what happened to her, what
could happen to you. I feel challenged to do what I can to "take care of"
Lotte's directive, by sharing this, her story, with you. The entire transcript
is below.
In this video, Lotte recounts the saga of her life's most
difficult journey, beginning from the moment when she, a Jewish teenager, first
encountered "anti-Jew" activity in the new Nazis in her previously
warm and friendly community in Germany. Lotte recalls a sudden hostility, which
appeared literally overnight, against herself and her well-respected and
much-loved family, from people in the community - friends, neighbors,
classmates, and business associates - with whom she and her mother and father
had been intimate friends only the day before it all started. It is absolutely
shocking, how quickly a society can change, and this is an important video to
watch, as Lotte is an eloquent yet natural speaker, telling what happened, from
her vantage point as a teenager. She became separated from her parents, who
eventually were deported to Poland and murdered. Yet Lotte managed to make it
out of Germany and to America, and now, in her nineties, she is here to tell us
her eyewitness account of exactly what happened. At (41:48), Lotte sums up
with, "And that's my story"; this is at a point in her narrative when
it seemed the nightmare was over, that day she met her husband in America and
life became wonderful again.
Lotte had not seen it coming. The Holocaust appeared to take
Lotte and her town by surprise. Yet, Lotte never fails to point out that, amid
the tragedy of watching her family's beautiful and tranquil life destroyed,
partially through the betrayal of people with whom they had once shared a mutual
affection, there were also those people who sympathized with her family's
plight and tried to help them. You can feel Lotte's compassion for her former
friends and neighbors, whose sudden hostility toward Jews appeared to Lotte to
be stimulated by their absolute fear that the same horror would happen to
themselves and their loved ones immediately if they did not also participate in
this persecution, or at least remain silently complicit in the shadow of its
terrible face.
An oft-repeated line in Lotte's story, "And, I
sometimes wonder, who was looking out for me?" (49:09). Lotte's is an
incredible story of courage and perseverance in the face of adversity, and in
her query is an attempt to find an answer, for herself, to her life-long
question of why she survived and why she found, then, and continues to find,
now, support from other people.
In her final moments of the video, Lotte shows her genuine
concern for her interviewer, who had to listen to this difficult story of hers:
"I gave you a headache" (50:32).
Never forget! Please, please watch Lotte's story, and share
it with others you care about. And, please, care about everyone in the world. And
remember, as Lotte says, "I'm still
here!" (44:01).
Tuesday, April 28, 2015
Source Material
When I noticed there was an ongoing extended internet outage at my kid's college, I texted what I thought might be a helpful suggestion (to save the data I was sure would be eaten up on our phone plan), "Read real books. In the library."
The reply, "What's a library?"
The reply, "What's a library?"
Tuesday, April 14, 2015
Old
Kids, when you hear them say "Live in the moment,"
try hard to fathom what they mean, but realize you may not fully appreciate
this saying until you start actually practicing it.
If I had realized earlier that all of life was to be a
series of interesting moments, I might have spent more of my efforts in
enjoying each fully at the time it happened, rather than attempting to preserve
a memory path down which I expected I could travel one day in the future, to
try to re-experience the same. I was always sure that, at some later point in
my life, I would be able to do whatever it was I had done the first time; this
next time, it would be even better, because I would be incorporating what I had
since learned.
Instead, I have found that I don't actually take the same
path twice, no matter how wonderful, no matter how much I have learned about how
I could now improve upon it.
Each moment is unique. Each is a treasure.
Sometimes, the best thing that is happening at the moment is
that you are not being eaten alive by mosquitoes.
Relish that thought, when it occurs.
Wednesday, February 25, 2015
Love Letter to The Prodigal Child
My Dear Child,
This is Mommy talking. This letter is about love.
You are my very own child and I love you so much.
It has been very painful to see you struggle with your feelings
as you try to find solutions to life's most difficult problems, though you have
rarely shared with me exactly what it is you have been thinking. I have tried
to understand, and tried my very best to provide you with loving support, even
as it seems you have insisted on doing everything your own way, independently
of what I have tried to tell you. I often feel you are telling me you are not
interested in listening to my opinion, that you feel I cannot possibly
understand what you are going through, that you believe I cannot help you.
Every person in the world has their own unique set of
experiences, but that does not mean they cannot be connected to other people in
loving ways. I would hope you can work on removing the obstacles you have
consciously set between us, and eventually come to understand that my role in
your life as your mother is a valid one, a treasure worth preserving.
I would like for us both to try to heal our relationship, as
we move forward.
As I sense that you have pushed me away, I have experienced
a broken sense of trust, which may take a long time to restore. It may never again
be the open trust I have come to rely on with my other loved ones, friends and
family, and this loss of trust between you and me produces, deep in my heart, a
profound sorrow.
I have always felt you to be closest to my heart. Your
approach toward life and your challenges so nearly resemble my own struggles,
as I worked at developing clear thought and an awareness of my own place in the
universe, as one of its many unique individuals.
I am rooting for you in your battle for a sense of wellness
and wholeness. I want to believe that you are on your way to growing into the
healthy adult I have always hoped you want to become. If you ultimately fail in
that venture, I want it to be not for a lack of trying, nor for a perception by
you that it is not possible or that you are not deserving of success. No one—anywhere or at any time, past or present or future—deserves more of a wonderful
life than you do.
It grieves me that I have often been clueless as to your
state of mind, as you have not seemed to be able to share with me your thought
processes. You did not describe to me what you were suffering, either because
you did not want me to know that there was anything wrong, or because you
yourself did not understand what was happening to you. I understood more than
you think I did, because my own internal struggles during childhood and adolescence
were so similar to yours.
We may not have all the answers, but I want you to know that
I am here alongside you on this path called life and I would like to walk with
you as time moves on.
Please consider my wishes. I believe it is somehow important
to a person's sense of being as a whole person, to remain connected with your
family who loves you, even as we appreciate that each is a unique individual
who is not like anyone else in the world. My expectation is not, that you will
become like me, or indistinguishable from any of the rest of us—an invisible, though
important, pillar of society—but that you will come into your own and feel you
are free to become yourself, in whatever manner you find best suits you. You
may then want to share with us, your family, that wonderful person, the
"you" who you are. I hope you will share with me, your mother, the
person who you are now, as an adult, and continue to share with me the "you" who
you are, at every future step of your life. You have grown and changed. You
began as a child and were nurtured by me, from within myself, and from within
our family.
From the time I first saw your exquisite face, minutes after
you were born, when they brought you to me and I could hold you for the first
time, I felt a special incredible love and an extraordinary deep spiritual connection
with you, my child.
I was then dumbfounded with hurt and surprise when,
suddenly, I realized I had been caught unaware by the facts, what is implied in
the discovery that one is in the presence of true love. I found myself unprepared
for a new and awful sense of worry. The realization hit me, that this fountain,
overflowing with joy and unblemished happiness, might not last forever. It was
so distressing, my awareness that this bliss could vanish, in any instant,
without warning.
I could have wallowed in the misery of my awareness of the
inevitability of loss of that which is most precious, but I decided to choose differently,
and make my reality one that would continue to contain our eternal connection.
Our hearts would forever be as one, mother and child. I felt confident that this
truth would sustain me to the end of time, no matter whatever else might happen.
I felt lucky that I had finally been able to enjoy that
moment when we first met and we physically touched our skins together, out in the
open air, as I had felt your presence while I carried you inside me, before you
were born, and had cherished our bonded intimacy. I knew our physical closeness
could not possibly last forever, so I steeled myself against the inevitable time
of our eventual separation, where our paths would go in different directions.
Yet, I knew the intensity of our connection would be
eternal. Through these, my words (if they are preserved), I would hope that
this, an acknowledgement and description of our connection, becomes one with
the consciousness of "all that is."
Now, back to the present moment.
Today, you are grown up and apart from me, both physically
and in other senses of the word "apart." Yet, you are also "a
part" of me. We are parts of a unified "one."
I hope to once again be able to hold you in my arms and tell
you I love you with all my heart. I would hope to hear you someday echo these,
my own feelings, as your own feelings of love for your mother spring honestly
and freely from your own heart.
I wish you all the joy love can bring. I want you to never
give up seeking love, and I want you to find much love. I want for you to find that
it is love that enriches your life, as much as my love of you has enriched my
own life.
My love for you will continue to make me happy until I die.
I hope my love for you will live forever in your own heart, as you remember me
throughout the rest of your own life, even if you outlive me. You will always
have my love. Always know how much I always love you. This love and our
connection will last forever.
Love,
Mommy
Monday, February 23, 2015
Quotations
Life is too hard. It's breathe, breathe, breathe, all the time.
~ Barbara
Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indomitable will.
~ Gandhi
Our greatest glory is not in never failing but in rising up every time we fail.
~ Confucius
. . . I reflected that all things happen to oneself, and happen precisely, precisely now. Century follows century, yet events occur only in the present; countless men in the air, on the land and sea, yet everything that truly happens, happens to me. . . .
(The Garden of Forking Paths)
~ Jorge Luis Borges
. . . I reflected that all things happen to oneself, and happen precisely, precisely now. Century follows century, yet events occur only in the present; countless men in the air, on the land and sea, yet everything that truly happens, happens to me. . . .
(The Garden of Forking Paths)
~ Jorge Luis Borges
The trick is, if you really believe the world is going to hell in a handbasket, don't let it upset you.
~ Susanna
~ Susanna
Monday, January 26, 2015
Always Do Right
Always do right.
It is time to speak of the unspeakable horror of The
Holocaust, it is always time to speak of those peculiar atrocities committed
against groups of people who had been labeled as not people, of those extreme
acts of cruelty performed by those who believed themselves to be good people
dedicated to making the world a better place by exterminating, en masse, so many other good people.
Never forget that human beings are capable of being so wrong
and so terrible to one another.
Never forget.
Repeat the story of The Holocaust, so that it is not forgotten,
so that it is not reenacted, so that The Holocaust is never repeated.
Seek out the stories that exist today, the stories that do
and the ones that do not make the news. Where are there horrors that indicate a
new The Holocaust is possible, is likely, is happening now next door, is on our
doorstep, is happening now and right here, is being perpetrated by
well-meaning, upstanding, good citizens who truly believe that they are doing
what is right? Bad-deed-doing people who are either unaware or unconcerned that
they are doing evil are possibly even... us. You. Me.
Examine society. Examine oneself. Examine neighbors,
friends, family, religions, beliefs, ideas, philosophies, cultural norms, laws,
familiar practices.
What are we doing? Are we always doing what is right? How do
we know?
I truly believe that I live in a society which is dedicated
to always doing right and actually succeeds, to the best of its ability, in
making the world a better place for all.
Always do right.
Never forget The Holocaust, nor those who were enticed or
coerced into performing each one of the independently heinous acts. Those real
people acted as they did just like all people do, because the course of action
they took "seemed like a good idea at the time" or because the
alternative course of action was seen to be worse. This is not unlike so many
other activities human.
The Holocaust is the one worst thing that history has, to
date, ever recorded. The people who committed these atrocities followed what
seemed to them like a normal course of human activity. Doing what each one of
them did seemed, to each one of those real people, like making a choice and
choosing the best possible alternative at the time. Many had never examined
whether or not their society was committed to doing right. Many people might
have felt they were stuck living within the society that perpetrated The
Holocaust, that they had no alternative way to live their lives, even if they
wanted to.
Never forget that it was real people who carried out the
individual acts which echo through our collective psyche and scream "Never
again!"
You are a real person. Always do right.
Never forget that even good people who believe they are
doing right could be very, very wrong.
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